By — Dorie
Dear Dorie, When is it appropriate to start young children in classes like dance, piano or other musical instruments, gymnastics, etc. that are not “Parent and Me Classes?”
Dear Planning, In general, non-structured creative dance and rhythm classes start at age 3, as well as a few art for toddler sessions. Gymnastics classes also begin at 3 years old. Most organized sports are best left until 4 years old and introduced in a “pee-wee” format with very flexible expectations. The city of Santa Monica community classes division has an extensive offering of kids’ classes listed in “Seascape,” a city publication available at your local library or city office. The Santa Monica chapter of the YWCA also has a nice variety of classes for the little ones. Finally, there are many private studios that will have classes for young children.
The most important thing to do is follow your child’s interests. Not all children like gymnastics. Also, remember in the first few attempts to firmly clarify the class refund policy. It’s your job to give it a good shot — don’t quit after one attempt — but the class should not be forced. When you make the right match, you’ll know. Remember though, even these classes require your presence on the sidelines or, at least, on site. You’re not in the “drop off” stage until well into elementary school. Good luck and don’t forget to bring the camera. (Dorie Meek is director of the Infant & Family Support Program, provided by Saint John’s Health Center in partnership with the Santa Monica-Malibu Unified School District. Meek answers questions concerning children ages birth to 5 years old. Submit your questions to “Dear Dorie” at, or call (310) 452-6132; fax (310) 452-6392).
Originally published in the Santa Monica Daily Press print edition on February 15, 2005. Read the original PDF.