Dear Dorie, I’m wondering exactly what my toddler needs to learn before being ready to start preschool in September. Should I be working on letters or colors? I don’t want to push him before he’s ready, but I also want to give him a healthy start to school. — Preschool Prep Dear Prep, Your search for information and concern for your son’s well-being on that first day of school is endearing. It is a huge step for both of you. Be sure to bring the camera and, between the tears (yours, not his), take lots of pictures.
I’m guessing your son has just turned 3 years old, and hopefully is actively playing for a good part of each day. If you’ve been spending quality time with him reading, singing, exploring, chatting, etc. then your prep work for preschool is done. You may want to check out some library books that deal specifically with the first day of school, or stop by and visit the new classroom and teacher, but other than that, no academic preparation is necessary.
You seem like a good parent — alphabet, number, shape or color memorization won’t ever change that. Relax and enjoy your last summer with your baby. — Dorie (Dorie Meek is director of the Infant & Family Support Program, provided by Saint John’s Health Center in partnership with the Santa Monica-Malibu Unified School District. Meek answers questions concerning children ages birth to 5 years old. Submit your questions to “Dear Dorie” at, or call 310-452-6132; fax 310-452-6392.)
Originally published in the Santa Monica Daily Press print edition on July 26, 2005. Read the original PDF.